Under a Collector’s Curse
By:
NAREN LEE SANKAR
My
childhood hero, “Buzz Lightyear” had a short lived TV series “Buzz Lightyear Of
Star Command” and when the series ended, all the merchandise for that series
stopped being made. Today, they are rare collectables and after searching for it for four years on ebay, I found
them:
We
all buy things which we actually can do without. That is the issue I want to
explore today: “When Does Buying And Collecting Things
Become Dangerous?”
A
recent Straits Times Article caught my
attention and I thought of something: “When we collect and buy things, do we
think about why we are buying the products enough before forking out lots of
money?” Here is what people from my school, Republic Polytechnic had to say.
Now
that you know some of the reasons why we collect things, it is time to explore
when Buying And Collecting Things Become Dangerous.
I collected so much “Buzz Lightyear Of Star Command” merchandise over the last
three years that I am $600 poorer and my
drawers for keeping stuff at home have become full and yet, the collection
still is incomplete. Imagine that.
I
stopped collecting the merchandise when my drawers became full because I had
read articles about the extent people go to complete their collections, one
example being this one: “John Jay Pittman, though not a wealthy man to begin with, built
a vast and famous coin collection. He accomplished that feat by studying
relentlessly, then shrewdly investing a large percentage of his limited income
as a middle manager for Eastman Kodak and his wife's income as a schoolteacher.
In 1954, he mortgaged his house to travel to Egypt and bid on coins at the King
Farouk Collection auction.” – Excerpt and photo below from here.
“Pittman Paid $400 for a six piece coin set. Ironic since this
coin is a one cent coin, don’t you think?”
So,
what are the signs that you are over collecting (the name for that is “Hoarding”)?
:
1. An inability to discard objects
coupled with anxiety if a hoarder does try to throw things away.
2. Impaired ability to function due
to hoarding.
3. A cluttered living space that has
become so filled with objects that it can't be used effectively.
Source: “TLC"
Now that you know the signs of hoarding, what can you do to control yourself? Here are my suggestions:
1. When you see something you want to buy, ask
yourself “do I really want this?” “Do I have space at home to keep this?”, “when
did I last buy something?” I know it is hard to do because many shops use colors, scent or other things to make you want
to buy something.
2. Think of those less fortunate
than you, the children at Club
Rainbow, who are suffering from life-threatening illnesses
for example and then consider buying something for them instead. Giving will
make you feel good too.
3. Take up a Challenge;
use the item you want as a drive for you to excel, only get it after you have
achieved a goal in life for example. I am a huge fan of “Scrappy Doo” and I
promised myself that if there is an improvement of at least 0.4 in my GPA every
semester, I will buy one “Scrappy Doo” product.
In summary, buying things is something all of us do
but as with everything in life, there must be a balance. Know how shopping malls cleverly make you feel like buying
something and if you do choose to buy something,
think about why you are doing it. This
way, you will defeat the “Collector’s Curse” that is inside of you forever. Who says you need superpowers to be super?
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What about those who collect old things, or antiques? I know of some people who collect unwanted items like old telephones or video game consoles, probably for sentimental value or just as keepsakes? And they don't spend more than what they've already spent on those items, in fact they could make even more if they sell it years from now!
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading my post. Well, you do have a point as mentioned in my post,collecting is ok to a certain extent,like when you can afford it. It is not ok when you've no more space at home or have run out of cash, but still insist on collecting whatever the reason because that's "Hoarding".
DeleteI truly agree with all the 3 points mentioned here and will certainly try them out. I actually am a hoarder myself as I am very sentimental and even keep items from my primary school days.
ReplyDeleteWhen I go shopping, I will be attracted by all those sparkly, pretty and cute things (especially soft toys) and buy them even though I have more than enough at home.
I have too many items that were bought on the spur of the moment and when I return home, I find that they are useless. They are now gathering dust in my cupboard. :/
Hi Olivia, let me know if those suggestions work for you ok?
Deletewhat an informative article. will keep in mind the steps is should take. thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteHello Naadiah,glad you found the post informative,hope you'll be back soon for more posts.
DeleteOh! Such an informative article on 'hoarding' and there are some good tips given above to control oneself. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThank you Sharon, if there's any New Perspective you'd like to see on my blog,just drop me another message.
DeleteHey man! Good insights on how to overcome the "Collector's curse"! And a very detailed post. Ultimately it actually depends in the case of collecting something. Some people do get sucked in (to hoard) but there are also collectors who have cash and space to continue doing so :)
ReplyDeleteLook at it this way, it could be a mini hobby which in time to come, might turn into an investment as well (as long as you don't get too sentimental and refuse to sell any of it. Anyway thanks for the awesome post man!
Haha yes very true my friend. Considering keeping this blog alive after my ut, then we can all share Perspectives together.
DeleteOf course bro! you can share your perspective on things and topics! why close it down after all the hard work man :D
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DeleteThanks for sharing Naren. This post is really detailed! P.S: I love Buzz Lightyear too!
ReplyDeleteOh thanks Nadia. Happy to know there's another Buzz fan out there. :)
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